She told me not to wax for him
“When I started high-school, my mom came in and said it was time for the birds and the bees chat. And one of the first things she said to me was not to ever wax my vagina because I don’t want to look like a…
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Sacred Psychology: what it is and why we need it!
Last year I began using a term I felt best explained the work I do with clients – sacred psychology. As a licensed therapist who is also a spiritual empowerment coach and soul mentor for non-conformists, I needed to be able to distinguish MY…
Gift them with their own path… just not THAT one.
“People take different roads seeking fulfillment and happiness. Just because they’re not on your road doesn’t mean they’ve gotten lost.” ― Dalai Lama I’m a big believer in what I now call radical autonomy. (So much so that it’s the subject of my upcoming book,…
Lessons in Learning Not to Drown
Ever felt like life had it in for you?? Where wave after wave of bullshit smacked you in the face, knocked you off your feet, and by the time it seemed like your toes were barely touching the sand again and you were able to…
Of Daydreams and Regrets: Learning to work with existential dread
Guard well your spare moments. They are like uncut diamonds. Discard them and their value will never be known. Improve them and they will become the brightest gems in a useful life. – RALPH WALDO EMERSON Every once in a while, a sort of…
Dogma: Living with the results of other people’s thinking
Hot damn if that definition by Steve Jobs doesn’t hit all the feels, am I right? As one who grew up with all kinds of dogma, most commonly religious in nature, I stopped dead in my tracks when this came across my feed a few…